That seems to have fixed it. I did see a three lines of red errors pop up after i got into the world, but they didn't seem to cause any harm to the server or client stability, was able to pull weapons from the creative menu and they seem fine. Will test more extensively as I get time. THANK YOU for your help with this one!!
also, yeah, that other one is from bdubya's wasteland mod i think. it's been working fine for the last month though so I haven't worried about it.