Bearixie

I used to play 7 days all the time with my so but as of the last update (not the current one but the one before??) it crashes before we can join each others game. It will let us play single player just fine but once one of us starts to join the games both crash. I thought maybe it'd get patched so we waited it out but it doesn't seem so, I feel lost but still love and want to play the game..... any ideas on what I should do? I'm so sorry I just realized I'm in the wrong topic but I don't know how to take it down ahhhhh