You’re way off-target. I don’t want it used as an adjective because it’s a crime against language. It’s a freakin’ noun. When it comes to usage, the internet slang application is just too damn stupid to live. Demand more eloquence from your colloquialisms. If you want to come up with a less clumsy way to slangify “OCD,” I’m all for it, and I’ll consider your grant proposal.
Now, as for taking offense, you’re certainly welcome to your opinion - I’m rabidly opposed to hyper-cautious language myself - but there are some major logical flaws in your golf parallel and your assumption about my underlying mentality is a wide miss, though understandable. I’m not keen to discuss it further, though, for a whole host of reasons, not least because I’m aware I dragged things WAY off topic.